Weekend in The Hospital - Don't Freak Out
Okay, I’ll tell you the end of the story first so you don’t freak out. Everything’s okay! Dad has been having some intestinal problems (I won’t go into detail on this one, TMI) and the long and short of it is that he wound up in the E.R. Thursday night with a stomach that looked pregnant (not full term mind you, just second trimester pregnant). His digestive systems decided to go on vacation after we abused it in Hawaii and just shut down. Needless to say, he was having severe abdominal pain. The x-rays didn’t show much and he was scheduled for a CT scan the next day, so they gave him a shot of morphine, an enema, a pat on the head and the bill and sent him home. He went in the next morning for the CT and it showed that the peritoneum had thickened and that fluid was building up between the peritoneum and the stomach. This means the fluid was not crossing the normally porous peritoneum into the intestines. There are several causes of the symptoms Dad is experiencing (severe abdominal pain, distended abdomen, fluid build-up behind peritoneum, elevated white count, constipation, etc). When we began radiation, the doctor told us pancreatitis and/or other organ revolts were possibilities. They were using extreme treatments and they were combining radiation with a chemo that would intensify the effects of the radiation. The target of this treatment is generally not happy with this approach. Mad pancreas = pancreatitis and all the symptoms Dad is experiencing. The doctor just told us that his pancreatic enzymes were not elevated, but in fact low. That rules out pancreatitis. But other organs such as the peritoneum, intestines, stomach could be protesting resulting in problems. We just don't know. Another possibility is infection. Our friends Rusty and Gina have experienced exactly this with Rusty's mom. Joanna has pancreatic cancer and had the same symptoms Dad is experiencing during her treatment. Thedoctors had only gloom and doom prognoses to tell. Since she has pancreatic cancer, it must be that the cancer has spread! Noooooo. There was a pocket of infected fluid in one of her lungs. The final possibility (and my personal least favorite) is that the cancer has spread to the peritoneum and spread over the surface of it, encasing it, preventing the fluid to pass to the intestines. We don’t like this possibility, so we’ll just ignore this one.
Please continue to lift up Mom and Dad during yet another time of waiting and not knowing. Dad will remain in the hospital for observation until the procedure is performed on Monday. We shouldl have the ultrasound and blood culture results (testing for some infections) on Monday. He is still in pain and nauseated (maybe he is pregnant). They are doing an endoscopic ultrasound on Monday to take a visual look at the peritoneum, stomach, intestines, etc. This will tell us a lot about what’s going on, so we will update you as soon as we know. As always, continue to lift Dad up in prayer. Our eyes are firmly fixed on God’s promises. God spoke pretty clearly to us at the outset that He wasn’t going to calm the storm, but He would take us through it and over it as we leaned in to Him and His strength. Time to lean in with all we’re worth!
Please continue to lift up Mom and Dad during yet another time of waiting and not knowing. Dad will remain in the hospital for observation until the procedure is performed on Monday. We shouldl have the ultrasound and blood culture results (testing for some infections) on Monday. He is still in pain and nauseated (maybe he is pregnant). They are doing an endoscopic ultrasound on Monday to take a visual look at the peritoneum, stomach, intestines, etc. This will tell us a lot about what’s going on, so we will update you as soon as we know. As always, continue to lift Dad up in prayer. Our eyes are firmly fixed on God’s promises. God spoke pretty clearly to us at the outset that He wasn’t going to calm the storm, but He would take us through it and over it as we leaned in to Him and His strength. Time to lean in with all we’re worth!
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I am so happy to hear of the blessings that are being shared in the midst of this situation. Wide open faith leads to the confident assurance that God is in fact in control and that he loves us. We have seen God at work - not in the power of positive thinking, but a genuine perception - tasting of his goodness, gazing upon his glory and being satisfied with his beauty. I was asked the other day - 'What am I risking on God today?' As I stalled for an answer, I thought of two men. Two men that I knew wouldn't have a problem or even a pause in answering such a question. Tom - you are one of those men, my father being the other. Then, he shared a short illustration of what it meant to be recognized. I could see your faces the entire time he was talking. So please forgive the length - I just wanted to share who you are to us.
'You are part of a fellowship of the unashamed. You have the Holy Spirit power. The dye has been cast, you've steped over the line. The decision has been made - you are a disciple of His. You won't look back, let up, slow down, back away or be still. Your past has been redeemed, your present makes sense, your future is secure. Low living, sight walking, smooth knees, colorless dreams, tame visions, worldly talk, cheap giving and dwarfed goals are not a consideration. You've never needed pre-eminence, prosperity, promotion, possessions or popularity. You live by faith, you lean on His Power and His Presence. You walk by patience and are uplifted by prayer. Your face is set, your gate is fast, your goal is heaven. Your mission is clear - your guide is reliable - although your road is narrow and your way is rough. You cannot be bought, compromised, detoured, lured away, turned back, deluded or delayed. You will not flinch in the face of sacrafice, hesitate in the presence of the enemy, ponder in the pool of popularity or meander in the maze of mediocrity. You won't give up, let up, shut up until you've stayed up, stored up, prayed up, paid up - all for the cause of Christ. You are a disciple of His. You must go until he comes, teach to all and work until He stops you. And when He comes for His own, He will have no problem in recognizing you!
We are praying for a miracle! We love you and your family so very much.
Tom,
I've don't believe for one minute that cancer will win in this situation. That goes completely against everything that God has promised to those who are faithful.
We stand in faith, having asked God for YOU, believing He has already done what we've asked, regardless of what we see. He knows how much we can bear...
To God be the glory, great things He has done...
Love you so much,
Tracy
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